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Saturday, February 21, 2009
Why do females hate on each other ? what is it that women say hurtful and hateful things even spread rumors when it's not true? from high school to adulthood when does it stop?? or does it ever???????
8 comments:
Anonymous
said...
Because they are jealous of the female they are talking about so they will say anything to make that person look bad at any means nessesary
that is true sometimes the girl is wack but at the same time if she is wack is she even worth talkin about but I think girls live on dissing girls it in our nature that is what they do and that is something they always do girls are just mixup
IT IS SO SAD THAT US WOMAN AND EVEN MAN HAVE TO COME TO THIS SPREADING RUMORS AND FICTICAL LIES TO MAKE OUR SELF FEEL BETTER ABOUT OURSELF I CANT LIE I DO IT
I partially agree with the first and third comments.
A lot of it has to do with insecurities. A strong and confident woman shouldn't need to put down, disrespect or even comment on another woman regardless of the other womans morals, values, beliefs and/or lack there of.
And for those that like to spread rumors, lies, and ficticious stories about people, once again it all goes back to personal insecurities. People lie because they are ashamed/embarrased of something they have done or are doing. For some reason, they feel it makes them look and feel better to belittle, disrespect and tell lies about others to taint their character.
I have learned to eliminate all negative energy from my life, along with the people that create it. At the end of the day, peoples true character speaks for itself. No one needs to make claims to being something, or having morals and values, those elements of our lives and character speak for themselves through our actions.
Some people need to grow up period. By setting up groups to disrespet people etc. those people are doing nothing but humiliating themselves. Who has time to do things like that, why would you affiliate yourself (name, picture etc) with such a behaviour. These people obviously have very low or non existent expectations and aspirations for themselves if this is something they are choosing to participate in....
I totally agree with this comment above mine these peoples obviously have low or no self esteem and do not love themself or God cause we are all Gods children "treat thy neighbour as you would like to be done to you"
Well I was shocked also to see that there are people with so much time on there hands to be making a group to talk about both derogatory, and disturbing stuff about people they know or people they know nothing about and the sad part about is people were enjoying it(It was like it aint about me so who cares?)
It is sad that us woman and even men live for other peoples misery why is that ? I personally don't like that shit because it has happen to me and words can't describe how I felt when someone was doing that, so pathetic and to think it would make me look bad but yet it just made them look even more dumb than they already were and proved that age does not prove that some one is mature.
These are all the reasons why I have only limited amount of friends and family that associate my self with it better that way.
P.S Cause now people who you call or think are your friends can be your enemy. Like Bob Marley said "they will eat and drink with you" modern day JUDAS!!!!!!!!
So true. It's actually quite disgusting. Little do these people know, ALL of the information (comments, pictures etc) can be assessible to our future employers etc. So if that is the type of behaviour they want associated and affiliated with themselves, that's on them.
I completely agree with you on the so called "JUDAS'". Just always remember this, we can only control our own words and actions, therefore never involve or reveal anything to anyone that you wouldn't be comfortable with the whole world knowing.
As people say, misery loves company, so sometimes, when people are miserable, instead of looking at themselves, and trying to get themselves out of that state and work on improving themselves and their situation, they try to inflict that same pain, and depression on others.
Monique, keep doing you. Don't let them and their immature actions affect you. KARMA is a strong force to be reckoned with!
8 comments:
Because they are jealous of the female they are talking about so they will say anything to make that person look bad at any means nessesary
Sometimes its not hatin the other female is just straight wack...
that is true sometimes the girl is wack but at the same time if she is wack is she even worth talkin about but I think girls live on dissing girls it in our nature that is what they do and that is something they always do girls are just mixup
IT IS SO SAD THAT US WOMAN AND EVEN MAN HAVE TO COME TO THIS SPREADING RUMORS AND FICTICAL LIES TO MAKE OUR SELF FEEL BETTER ABOUT OURSELF I CANT LIE I DO IT
I partially agree with the first and third comments.
A lot of it has to do with insecurities. A strong and confident woman shouldn't need to put down, disrespect or even comment on another woman regardless of the other womans morals, values, beliefs and/or lack there of.
And for those that like to spread rumors, lies, and ficticious stories about people, once again it all goes back to personal insecurities. People lie because they are ashamed/embarrased of something they have done or are doing. For some reason, they feel it makes them look and feel better to belittle, disrespect and tell lies about others to taint their character.
I have learned to eliminate all negative energy from my life, along with the people that create it. At the end of the day, peoples true character speaks for itself. No one needs to make claims to being something, or having morals and values, those elements of our lives and character speak for themselves through our actions.
Some people need to grow up period. By setting up groups to disrespet people etc. those people are doing nothing but humiliating themselves. Who has time to do things like that, why would you affiliate yourself (name, picture etc) with such a behaviour. These people obviously have very low or non existent expectations and aspirations for themselves if this is something they are choosing to participate in....
Just a few of my thoughts..
I totally agree with this comment above mine these peoples obviously have low or no self esteem and do not love themself or God cause we are all Gods children "treat thy neighbour as you would like to be done to you"
Well I was shocked also to see that there are people with so much time on there hands to be making a group to talk about both derogatory, and disturbing stuff about people they know or people they know nothing about and the sad part about is people were enjoying it(It was like it aint about me so who cares?)
It is sad that us woman and even men live for other peoples misery why is that ? I personally don't like that shit because it has happen to me and words can't describe how I felt when someone was doing that, so pathetic and to think it would make me look bad but yet it just made them look even more dumb than they already were and proved that age does not prove that some one is mature.
These are all the reasons why I have only limited amount of friends and family that associate my self with it better that way.
P.S Cause now people who you call or think are your friends can be your enemy. Like Bob Marley said "they will eat and drink with you" modern day JUDAS!!!!!!!!
So true. It's actually quite disgusting. Little do these people know, ALL of the information (comments, pictures etc) can be assessible to our future employers etc. So if that is the type of behaviour they want associated and affiliated with themselves, that's on them.
I completely agree with you on the so called "JUDAS'". Just always remember this, we can only control our own words and actions, therefore never involve or reveal anything to anyone that you wouldn't be comfortable with the whole world knowing.
As people say, misery loves company, so sometimes, when people are miserable, instead of looking at themselves, and trying to get themselves out of that state and work on improving themselves and their situation, they try to inflict that same pain, and depression on others.
Monique, keep doing you. Don't let them and their immature actions affect you. KARMA is a strong force to be reckoned with!
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